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So I have this sneaking suspicion that while technology is currently intertwined with my career, and is one of the things I enjoy the most, it is destroying the society I live in.
If you work on computers, you might have noticed that sometimes a whole day can pass in what feels like a few hours, especially when the computer and Internet are working well. The effect has only been enhanced as technology has gotten better, and we have gotten used to waiting less. I am less patient with things, as I have come to expect websites to appear nearly instantly, and my computer to load up any application I require in a minute or less.
With me, my job is one hundred percent online, and I never feel like I can catch up. I start each day feeling like I am behind, and sometimes wonder if I should skip sleep just so I can keep up with the news releases, the writing I have to complete, and the social networking that will help boost my career.
There is always so much going on, and while I might be asleep here, there are amazing products, services, and information coming from around the other side of the world. Information pours into my feed reader, and sometimes piles up, as I set it aside to deal with the influx of e-mails that I get every day. Dozens of people attempt to message me through instant messaging programs, websites, and social networking applications. Managing all this information can be exhausting, and sometimes feel very unproductive.
My wife doesn’t use e-mail anymore, nor does she hang out with all her friends anymore. She contacts them through Facebook, or through an instant messaging program. They rarely talk on the phone anymore, and when they do, she sometimes carries on a conversation with someone else on the computer at the same time.
In the old days, your friends were those that lived near you, or who you grew up with, but now I have friends all over the world. I say “friends”, but how well do most of these people know me? They have never visited with me, and most have never even seen my face. Can I really consider these people my friends? Would they help me out if I were having problems?
There are some weeks where the only two faces I see are my wife’s and her cat’s and while that sounds very pathetic, it is the world that I, and many of my colleagues live in. It is why web people interested in pretty much any topic have formed a variety of groups of like-minded people, and created conferences for pretty much any interest as well. We need avenues of socialization that technology is rapidly taking away from us.
With the primary method of communication in my household being text, what are we missing out on? Everyone knows that there is more that can be said through vocal inflection, body language, and facial expressions, but these are all lost when we type them out online.
The second issue is how people communicate. They have become increasingly lazy with their spelling, grammar, and use a myriad of short forms that almost need a special decoder ring to understand. It has gotten to the point where ever shorter messaging services, like Twitter, are popular in part because they limit the amount of things you can say, which is the reverse of what I believe we need to do. Communication is the key to understanding, both ourselves and other people.
I work from home, on a computer, for fourteen hours a day. I get up to get food, water, and other such things, but I go weeks without really leaving the house for any long period of time. I don’t walk, jog, or play any sports. I am part of the growing epidemic of obese people in this world, and it is not just because it can be hard to eat healthy, but also because I live a very stationary lifestyle.
Why is that? Well, I communicate through computers, listen to music on my computer, watch television on my computer and pretty much do everything that is currently possible with a computer, on a computer.
While technology has done many things to advance our lives, and make it easier to live, access vast stores of information and entertain ourselves, I sometimes feel that we have lost some of the pleasures of life that technology can’t easily replace.
Have you noticed an adverse effect on society due to technology? Have you and your family been able to avoid the less than helpful side effects of living in this modern world? What do you think society will be like in twenty or fifty years? Have your say in the comments below.
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14 Responses for "How Technology is Destroying Society"
November 2nd, 2007 at 9:05 pm
1First off let me that you for a great article, I do think there are major problems with society as a whole and I do think it is in part due too the level of technological advenacement we have enjoyed as a society. In my country it has been clearly established that the introduction of self-closing doors in the public transport system has contributed much too the shrinking awareness of the amount of energy that is lost through bad conservation practices.
Nobody closes the door behind him anmore, as they would say in the Netherlands .. small changes have big impacts in unforseen ways forever and always.
This is how life is … unpredictable and not-so-well-behaved
November 3rd, 2007 at 12:15 am
2Yep… that’s me in a nutshell. Wont’ be long until my glasses have little LCD displays on them.
November 3rd, 2007 at 12:23 pm
3I agree with most of what you except the part where you shift responsibility to being overweight to the reality that you do everything on your computer.
You being a fat-ass has nothing to do with the computer or your job and everything to do with yourself. You obviously have discipline and a work ethic. You need to make the decision that your health and fitness is as important as your work.
Once you make that decision and approach it that same way you approach other important decisions in your life, you will be able to make accomplishments there as well.
Supposing the abscence of a true medical (or mental) condition, the only reason people are fat and unhealthy is because they’ve decided to let themselves be fat and unhealthy.
Now get off your fat ass and go for a walk with your wife!
November 3rd, 2007 at 1:49 pm
4Hey Bloggertizer – I totally agree with you. I wasn’t trying to shift all of the blame towards technology, just that the problem has become more prevalent because of technology. I know my “fat-ass” is mostly my own damn fault, sweet things just taste so good… I really should go walking with my wife, but when I come back, I have hundreds of comments to moderate, dozens of e-mails and a variety of instant messages… Just makes it hard to unwind, have fun and get away.
November 5th, 2007 at 2:35 am
5internet is my life, i started turning off my pc from 8 am-2am everyday
i only have free time to eat , i even forgot my bath.
we always argue with my husband, because i dont have time for them.
he wants me to sleep with him, but i cant even do that regularly,instead spend it with my pc.
one day he said, should cut internet subscription for me to have time with him and my 2 yr old kid.
i cried loudly and said , if you do that ,half of my life will get lost.
and maybe lets get separated.
i told him i can give up everything for blogging sake.
but now where ok now, i set time for my family , because my mother is mad at me regarding what had happen to us and even the whole family.
November 6th, 2007 at 12:13 pm
6sounds all to familiar, this…
Motherduce: The Blog » Blog Archive » Stuff I wish I’d gotten to this week…
November 16th, 2007 at 6:24 pm
7[...] Technology destroying society? (I think not) [...]
November 18th, 2007 at 7:26 am
8u.n.p.l.u.g.
December 8th, 2008 at 4:59 pm
9I have to say although your article was extremely persuasive and well written, i think I disagree with you. In today’s society although technology is an important part of our lives, I think it’s ultimately a person;s decision to incorporate a certain degree of this technology into or lives. It’s a personal choice for technolgy to rule your life.
December 8th, 2008 at 5:52 pm
10Just passing through and read your blog , I notice that despite having 3 email adresses , Skype , msn , Three telephone lines , a cell phone and infact living just 50 meters away for some people , they simplydont bother to , A; answer Emails , B answer skype messages , and C call back ( if at the time of me phoning there busy ) result , I EX communicate.
December 13th, 2008 at 9:40 pm
11Addiction to technology is hard to break just like smoking, drugs, etc. It’s an addiction with serious spiritual, emotional and social side affects. Blogging, myspacing, gaming, tv, etc. can replace everything else in our lives we were meant to do. Spending our waking hours glued to these things violates our role in this world as human beings. We’re created in God’s image with a designed purpose to live our lives for His glory. We waste our lives when we spend it in front of a screen.
December 27th, 2008 at 3:05 pm
12Technology is machines getting in between people to make money. All profits require a change, a transformation, by getting in between two people. That is where the money is. Government taxes and steals your life by getting in between you and what you want with taxation. Machines do this by enticing you to use a machine to take your time or money.
I own a wilderness cabin on a wilderness lake, off the grid. It is priceless. I have to canoe to it. Nature is filled with life and love spontaneously given to us from the Universe. Cities are filled with carnivores, parasites, cannibals, vampires, on our time and life, harvesting your life with machines. It’s the Matrix. If you want freedom or love get away from the machine. Get into wilderness. Get into being a human being, in love, instead of a human doing, serving the machine.
Protect yourself. No one else can or will. Manage your time. Have goals. Be proactive. Do not let the cell phone use you. You use the cell phone. When you let the drug use you, instead of you using the drug, you are an addict. Be proactive, not reactive. What is your goal? Why do you want a computer? Where will this vehicle take you? If you don’t use the computer, the computer will use you. It’s the same with all machines and all of life. Same with the car. If you don’t know where you are going, any road will get you there. Know what you want. Know what the price is. Pay the price. Be the master, not the slave, of the machine.
Jack Goldman
St. Paul, MN
October 16th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
13I enjoyed reading your article. Sometimes we reevaluate our own lives but just seeing ourselves in other people. The article was an observation of your life but resonates with alot of people who read it.
I think that statement of you being a fat ass is pretty harsh.
At least you are admitting to your own faults, now lets hope that you have taken some steps to take your life in a healthier direction.
Im a graphic designer, im 5′8 and 140lbs so not overweight but I can see how the computer has sucked me into it, because its both stimulating and mesmerizing and is also very draining. I work long and crazy hours on the computer, but I do try to make the effort to be apart of the pulse of life and in nature. I agree with Jack Goldman that nature is filled with life and will inspire you to “live” more and spend less time infront of a screen.
Yes technology has benefited our modern lives in many ways, but we should always have a healthy balance between what it is to be human and our dependance on technology.
Hope your on the right track!
November 2nd, 2009 at 12:21 am
14Health
I work from home, on a computer, for fourteen hours a day. I get up to get food, water, and other such things, but I go weeks without really leaving the house for any long period of time. I don’t walk, jog, or play any sports. I am part of the growing epidemic of obese people in this world, and it is not just because it can be hard to eat healthy, but also because I live a very stationary lifestyle.
Why is that? Well, I communicate through computers, listen to music on my computer, watch television on my computer and pretty much do everything that is currently possible with a computer, on a computer.
yo lazy its called get up and do some physical activities you work at home so you virtually make you own working ours you choose to sit in front of a computer screen for 14 hours a day and i bet for half that time your not even do your job your doing some sort of other B.S so don’t blame it on technology because your lazy. And the only reason why i fond this stupid post in the first place is because I’m writing a college essay on people just like you who think technology is bad because your to lazy to do something with your life and your blaming it on technology. Trust me I’m a college student and i also am on the computer countless hours of the day and i still find time to do physical activities to keep in shape so i suggest you start doing the same thing.
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